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Sunday, November 17, 2024

Navigating Relationships: When to Abandon Ship

The Many Dimensions of Relationships

**Companionship** refers to the bond shared between friends or partners who enjoy each other's company. If this connection feels stagnant or unfulfilling, it may be time to reassess.

**Relationship** encompasses romantic ties and emotional bonds. A healthy relationship should foster growth and mutual support.

**Friendship** is about true friends uplifting and inspiring us. If your friendships are one-sided or draining, it might be time to let go.

**Partnership** can refer to both business and personal relationships. Partnerships should be collaborative and equitable. If you find yourself doing all the heavy lifting, consider your options.

**Courtship** is the initial phase of romantic interest that should feel exciting and hopeful. If it feels forced or unreciprocated, it may not be worth pursuing.

**Fellowship** includes community connections and shared interests. If these relationships feel superficial or lack depth, think about seeking more meaningful interactions.

**Stewardship** involves caring for others, such as in mentorship roles. Ensure that this dynamic is healthy and reciprocal.

**Worship** pertains to spiritual or communal bonds that can be uplifting. However, if they lead to conflict or discomfort, reassess your involvement.

**Leadership** in any relationship should foster growth and respect. If you feel unsupported or undermined, it might be time to reevaluate.

When to Abandon Ship

If any of these relationships are not taking you anywhere positive—emotionally, mentally, or spiritually—consider these steps:

- **Evaluate the Impact**: Reflect on how each relationship affects your well-being. Are you growing? Are you happy?

- **Communicate Your Feelings**: Open dialogue can sometimes resolve issues that seem insurmountable.

- **Set Boundaries**: Establish what is acceptable in your relationships and stick to those boundaries.

- **Seek Support**: Talk with trusted friends or professionals who can provide perspective.

- **Make a Decision**: If after reflection you realize that a relationship is holding you back, it may be best to let it go.

Conclusion

Ultimately, relationships should enhance your journey through life, much like a well-designed ship navigating the seas of experience. If your companionSHIP, friendSHIP, partnerSHIP, courtSHIP, fellowSHIP, stewardSHIP, worSHIP, or leaderSHIP isn’t taking you anywhere positive, then it’s best to abandon SHIP. Prioritize your emotional health and well-being as you navigate the waters of your connections!

Eιɖεર Dરε

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I'm just a nobody, trying to tell everybody about Somebody who can save anybody. I give all honor to the Father for the privilege of being His instrument, through whom He lives and works for His glory alone. I served in the U.S. Navy for 21 years, retiring in September 2003. In my final three years, I was co-pastor at Greater New Refuge COGIC in Fallon, Nevada, under Pastor Gregory L. Brown. I supported my pastor and church by helping with a new sanctuary's construction and caring for all ministry needs while staying true to my mandate to preach the Word of God without compromise. In November 2002, I was licensed to preach and ordained in June 2003. While stationed in Virginia Beach, I served at Pleasant Grove Baptist Church for 17 years under Bishop-Elect W.D. Scott, Sr., and now I serve at Calvary Revival Church in Norfolk, VA, under Bishop B. Courtney McBath. I also earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Religion from Saint Leo University, deepening my foundation and commitment to this path of faith.

MY THEOLOGICAL TRAINING:

It brings to my face a unadulterated smile each and every occasion I am asked, “Elder Dre, What Theological Training do you have?”

My heart beams with joy at the opportunity to humbly give full glory to God as I reflect on on how the prophets, patriarchs and apostles of old would have respond: Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joshua, Gideon, King David, Elijah, Elisha, Jeremiah, John the Baptist, Matthew, Mark, Peter, James, John and the other disciples, not forgetting the Saviour Himself.

How would they have answered the question: “What theological training do you have?”

The words of the prophet Amos also came to mind: “Then answered Amos, and said to Amaziah, I was no prophet, neither was I a prophet’s son; but I was an herdman, and a gatherer of sycomore fruit:” Amos 7:14

I surely am not impliedly decrying theological preparation, education or training: I consider it essential, but not as much as some think. For the fact is, the Almighty raises up believers according to His own standards.

Educational qualifications, wealth, fame, talent, social standing, outward appearance etc. are useful; but they are secondary in His sight. Qualities like faith, obedience, holiness, humility, honesty, absolute loyalty to one’s spouse, the ability to raise one’s family to fear God and keep His commandments etc.; these are the things the Most High values.

“Man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.”

Only on the Day of Judgment will it be known how truly educated, weighty and effective I have been. That is why I have to smile when the question arise.

The vanity of the question is only matched by the foolishness of my answer.

As the wise man wrote: “Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher; all is vanity.” Ecclesiastes 1: 2 or as the apostle Paul commented in 2 Corinthians 11:16-30 when rattling off a long list of impressive qualifications “... I speak as a fool.”

Furthermore, we have seen with our own eyes and now testify that the Father sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. All who proclaim that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God. 1 John 4:14-15 (NLT)

I am a preacher, but most of all, I proclaim that Jesus is the Savior with various applications of that truth in my everyday life. My dear friend, if you are a Christian, you are a preacher also. Whether you have been ordained or not, hired by a church or not, or ever been recognized as a preacher or not is beside the point. All who have God living in them are called to proclaim the Savior to the world. It is a Holy calling, and a demanding one. It will pull you out of your comfort zone, challenge your commitment, and help to develop you into the person God has created you to be.

John spoke as an eyewitness to Jesus' saving power. We speak as heart-witnesses; ones who have not seen Jesus with our eyes, but have experienced Him through personal transformation. I speak, and you speak, as a representative of Christ on earth. The message that we bring is simple, yet profound; that God the Father sent God the Son into the world to save those who are lost to bring them into relationship with Him. As you tell the story, and I tell the story, some will listen and receive the grace that God has sent us into the world to proclaim.

PRAYER THOUGHT: Father, what a privilege to be a spokesperson for You.

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