My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, Iron surely does sharpeneth iron indeed. God's Word say's it in Proverbs 27:17 but He also inspired Paul to remind us through His Word in 1 Corinthians 15:33 not to be deceived because evil communications corrupt good manners. In other words, bad company corrupts good character. Yes indeed the benefits and virtues of friendship are extolled when Iron sharpens iron. There’s something about a peer, an equal—one with the same mettle and determination as ourselves—that causes us to be sharpened and made more keenly aware of our circumstances in friendship but... it’s also equally true that iron blunts iron. And—quite rapidly—our keen edge can be lost in the presence of ungodly friends. The same positive formations that can occur with godly influences can be seen doing the opposite for wickedness through corrupt influences. When it comes to building successful relationships with others it basically comes down to one thing Aretha Franklin reminded us of with a hit song...
"R.E.S.P.E.C.T."
And that "R.E.S.P.E.C.T." is reflected in the very way we relate to the other party.
My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not. If they say, Come with us, let us lay wait for blood, let us lurk privily for the innocent without cause: Let us swallow them up alive as the grave; and whole, as those that go down into the pit: We shall find all precious substance, we shall fill our houses with spoil: Cast in thy lot among us; let us all have one purse: My son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from their path: For their feet run to evil, and make haste to shed blood. Surely in vain the net is spread in the sight of any bird. And they lay wait for their own blood; they lurk privily for their own lives. So are the ways of every one that is greedy of gain; which taketh away the life of the owners thereof. -Proverbs 1:10-19
My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, if we approach the relationship from the viewpoint of how can I bring benefit to that other person – then you have immediately created an environment whereby a relationship can be developed. In simplistic terms, it’s more about the give rather than the get.
Be blessed by being a blessing.
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