SELFISHNESS

Now, let's have a question and answer period. I'll ask the questions. Feel free to answer out loud or in your heart.

1. Isn’t time I grow up and get over myself?

2. Does my petty, picky, little hurts or slights really have any bearing on eternity?

3. Where/how can I be of service to someone with no hope of recognition or reward?

4. What if nobody sees the good I'm doing?

5. How can I put others first and me second, thereby glorifying God with my actions?

6. What am I going to do nice for that person at work that I cannot stand?

7. How I can be tolerant of others that I deem less than me?

8. Do I really believe that everyone in the world is better than me at something?

9. Will it please God if I don't stand my ground on this stupid issue that doesn't matter anyway?

10. How can I glorify God daily by surrendering my full self to him and his will for me even if that includes doing things for others that I don't want to do?

There are about 500 more questions I could ask. But you get the point. Godly relationships begin in your heart where Jesus lives. You will automatically have Godly relationships if you keep God's command first and foremost in your heart: Love God first, others second and yourself last. This is very hard to do and can't be done unless we are walking with the Lord. And you are trying to change a lifetime of conditioned responses to certain stimuli. But next time you get the opportunity, give up your pride, your desires, your hopes, your dreams, and defer to the one you are engaged with, no matter what the cost. See what happens. You may find out how rewarding and freeing it can be. Keep God in your relationships and they will be Godly!